Thursday, June 21, 2012

Under Construction

Since the unexpected serving of divorce papers a few months ago, everything I knew and believed in was shaken to my very foundation.  To realize that the person I had put my heart and soul into for 16 years and all the words were a lie tore down my walls and left me vulnerable and open to even more attacks.

The divorce is over.  I'm under construction.  It's time to rebuild my walls, my strength, and my spirit.  And just as with a home being built, you can't do it alone.  You need a construction crew to support your efforts and build the walls with you.  Just as in pioneer times, I'm relying on my friends and family for an old-fashioned barn raising.

I'm happy to report my crew is full to the point of overflowing.  I have friends that text, call, or message me every single day to check on me, to tell me they love me, and to support me.  I have a man in my life who tells me all the time that he's my biggest fan.  I have children who check on my well being daily. These are the members of my construction crew and they and their love are the foundation of my new life.  The walls are being rebuilt at a record pace!!!

To all those who would undermine me, who only contact me out of curiosity about my circumstances, who belittle me, or who believe they have any business in MY business...keep moving down the road.  My construction crew is full up and I'm not hiring!!!

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